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How can individuals bring change to their lives?

"People rarely act unless compelled to" - The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

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To work on anything one should have a strong reason. It can be anything. And the reason will drive people to make changes in life. Our life task is to find the reason and work on it. 

To bring change in life first one should have self-awareness. Some people by birth will have the drive to focus on a particular thing and work on it for their entire life. But many of us have no idea what to do with life.

I was one among them. like everyone I was lost. Once I faced a difficult situation in life, I was forced to come out of that and my friend suggested to start reading and writing. In the beginning, I felt like quitting many times but there was a strong compulsion within that I have to overcome my current situation. and that was my driving force. I didn't read or write because I fell in love with that but I wanted peace.

It was hard for someone who used to hate reading and fall asleep when I saw the book but somehow I managed. That's the power of self-compulsion. We act only we are compelled to.

Now I have a routine in life. I get up early morning. Meditate for 30 minutes, Read, and write. I don't compromise my routine for anything. When I changed my routine everything around me started to change. The one change in your life can affect your life fully. It can impact all aspects of your life.

So you should figure out a reason why you want to change your life and that reason will help you to change your life correctly.


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